In Ukraine, the first reports of casualties among newly mobilized men came less than three weeks after the draft was announced in September. Mr. Putin nevertheless urged the women attending the meeting on Friday not to trust the news media and the internet, which he said were full of “fakes, deception and lies.”
For many apolitical Russians, however, the loss of husbands and sons amid reports from loved ones of low morale and poor training and equipment has brought the reality of the war into their homes after months of denial. In some cases, relatives have had to supply the ill-equipped conscripts with everything from socks to drones. Many have been unable to reach relatives for weeks, anxiously waiting for news.
On Sunday, Ms. Tsukanova’s organization held a news conference in Moscow where many soldiers’ relatives had a chance to tell their stories.
“They have humiliated, deceived and bullied us, so women, we have nothing to be afraid of,” said Ms. Tsukanova, whose son was drafted into the army before the September mobilization and forced to serve at the border with Ukraine with little prior training.
Yelena Kalimysheva said her brother was thrown into battle without any supplies or means of communication, without commanders in the field.